Happy Spring everyone! Woah we’ve had a doozy of a Winter and are so ready for warm weather! We had a relaxing Spring Break which started at the Sky’s cabin and ended with a FamBam Jayhawk adventure. Thanks to generous friends I had my own Spring Break in New York City and I have to say my first trip could never be duplicated! It was unreal! We’ve been so fortunate to be gifted some really big gifts since Brad’s diagnosis and this is definitely one for the record books! I came home filled up and ready to take in our notoriously busy Spring/Summer and a big appt with our Doctor.
Scans always trigger stress…it just does…we tell ourselves there isn’t anything major that will happen because we know they are just to check on success and that has been consistent with every follow up scan. Brad’s CT showed continued shrinkage in his liver which is always great news. They decided to do a colonoscopy to get a better look at the origin tumor and it literally has melted to a normal looking colon texture. So wild and wonderful!
On 3/25/18 we met with Dr. Pendergrass and he is very happy with how things are progressing and responding but did say that liver is the issue and ordered a MRI to get a better look at where the tumors are and if there is becoming an option for surgery. The challenge is they can’t just pluck out all of them and there are in both sides so they can’t just but off the spot. The great thing is that if the colon tumor melted as it did these tumors could keep shrinking as well. We are ONLY 6 months in from diagnosis as of 3/25 and 4/3 from first chemo treatment. That is so early in cancer treatment and Brad has really come so far. He is pretty much on cruise control for the next 3 treatments and we will meet after the MRI to see what he thinks about that. We moved treatment to Mondays which worked out pretty well so far.
Seems like each month brings new side effects and this month we’ve been dealing with adjustments to the diabetes diagnosis and meds. Brad’s bloodsugar dropped to what is a more healthy level but he felt bad which is a strange catch 22. So really what the goal is to manage it and bring it down but not get too strict. He needs a certain amount of carbs to help cushion all the meds he’s taking and will hopefully get used to the ups and downs of that blood sugar. What is the STRANGEST thing is this man was walking around with a liver that filled his chest… full of lime size tumors, blood pressure at stroke level in the 190s, pre-diabetic blood sugar and walked around like everything was fine until out of the blue he started feeling bad. His weight, blood pressure, blood sugar and blood work across the board is looking so good but obviously with all the meds, chemo and everything going on in his 6 foot test tube body he doesn’t always feel all that great. I just wonder…is it mind over matter? He believed everything was fine and blew off any symptoms he felt and never complained, always gets up early…I call him the robot because he just doesn’t slow down very often. He has a very strong ability to ignore anything that is off but seems like blood sugar is one that hits him pretty hard. This weekend was rougher on him but it was ok because baseball got snowed out and cancelled so we had a slower weekend with time to get organized, clean up the house and get rested. He felt pretty puny on Sunday so I declared it a recliner day for him to relax.
Thank you for your continued prayers. We are gearing up for some crazy calendar juggling and ALL the family is coming for Easter to celebrate Russell’s Confirmation. I’m super duper excited! I LOVE when all of my siblings, cuzzies plus all of the kids’ grandparents can be together at the same time. What a huge blessing! I am beyond grateful for all of them setting aside their own crazy schedules to gather together. It will be a glorious Easter celebration!
Sidenote–we survived another Touch of Silver Dance Team tryout week for Whitney. It is always so stressful because we want all of the girls we know trying out for the first time to make it but it is a very competitive squad. Some made it, others didn’t. We are excited to get the new season started and it will be kicked off next Tuesday. Senior year for Whitney is coming in hot!
Russell’s baseball team won their first tournament of the season by a long shot so we are officially bumped back up to AAA. We have a great team, great kids, great parents, I’m so excited for the season! There were a few kids including Russell with some doubts about their abilities going into the season and the big success erased any doubt and really bonded the team together. Brad and Russell were in their element and I absolutely enjoyed watching them enjoy every second. It was cold but honestly I don’t even remember that part. Hoping for gorgeous weather the rest of the way!
Carter has been struggling with stress at school. I’ve been trying to help him get some extra help to get over the hump but Lord Jesus I hate to see him stressed out! Please lift him up.
Brad has some nagging symptoms that have cracked his armor. Please pray for these to resolve and for him to feel tip top shape and feel as good as his blood work has been showing on paper.
Whitney and Russell need some extra luck and prayers to finish strong with their grades. They have some high 80s which they know drives mom crazy! If you are gonna get an 88 you might as well get a 90! Am I right?!? I know they are both trying so I don’t bug them too much. Whitney has her Proms to distract and Russell has practice or a church event every day with no breaks so he’s a busy guy.
Brad and I can both use prayers for our focused and successful results at work. Both of us are so busy but being in sales means we are always playing the odds to be successful and going into the busy Summer we are hoping to celebrate our successes.
Above all we feel so much love, we have been given some incredible gifts over the last six months to help us keep life as normal as possible and for that we can never say enough thank yous. My recent New York trip was a trip of a lifetime with my HS bestie and while I was tentatively nervous it was the most amazing time spent! Her husband was so generous to give us the opportunity to enjoy the city and each other. I still can’t believe it really happened! I walked in the New York City St. Patrick’s Day Parade as the FIRST THING I DID on my first day! I mean who does that besides Ferris Bueller?!?! Oh and then followed it up with the Big East championship at Madison Square Garden! I mean holy wow!